You are not alone in this. We all struggle with this at some point or another. I think yes you can find love again. Something I want to point out here. If you haven't found it yet, does it make sense to keep doing what you have done in the past. Have you stepped outside of your box to find love. What I mean is have you tried different approaches, different mindsets or ideas to find love.
Love isn't going to just knock on your door. You really do need to invest in the process if you want to ever find love again. Do you have this list of must haves in a man? If you do, I suggest the first step is to throw that list away. I am not saying settle, but entertain the possibility that love may not come in the package you expect. A man with a true pure heart, able to love and adore you may not look or be anything like you expect. Open your mind to different types of men than you normally would date. I am a prissy pot. I am in a committed relationship with my opposite. Rough around the edges, blue collar hard working man. No suit and tie like I was accustomed too.
The same goes with negative questions. If you ask yourself questions like "Why can't I find love?" or "Why am I single?" your subconscious mind will again go and find the answers for you. These are not nice answers either! Things such as "You sabotage relationships.", "You're too fat!", "You can't commit." and so on... Your brain MUST come up with an answer for you.Not pleasant but that's how it works. You then keep going through the same patterns time after time, potential relationship after potential relationship.
Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.
All the crazy, unattractive, messed up, still living with their parents at 35, no job, mean spirited, buck toothed, long working hours, stuttering people and worse that have found love, have done so because they loved themselves and opened themselves up fully to the power of being loved.This one magical state attracts love like you could never believe! Love is attracted to love. At our most primal level, we know in our hearts that once you are tuned in to your own ability to feel positively toward others, you will find someone special. This creates an intimate connection with the rest of the human race that allows and sometimes beckons others to gravitate toward us.
Anyone can find someone to fulfill them, someone they can call their soulmate. Its great that you want to find someone. Believe it or not but some of us in the world like to be alone. There are people who see friends and family as being weak. They think everyone around them only wants to hurt them, and so they live alone and fun by themselves.Some people just hate companionship, which is alright. Its their life and they can live it the way they want to. If you're someone asking "will I ever find love?" then the first thing you need to do that is to have the ability to take chances.Take a chance to speak to people, just start talking to people. Love is built through communication and with that said, how will you ever fall in love with someone if you don't start meeting people. Every time you walk outside there are people who you can talk to.
There are thousands of stories from which a person found the love of their life in a grocery store, at the gas station and believe it or not, people have found love in jail. The point is to take advantage of every opportunity in life.By opportunity I mean take a chance to talk to someone who you don't know. I'm not saying that you're going to fall in love with a bum or someone on the bus, but just start striking up conversations with people. Share your personality and your intelligence with the people you meet.
[Will I Ever Find Love]
Love isn't going to just knock on your door. You really do need to invest in the process if you want to ever find love again. Do you have this list of must haves in a man? If you do, I suggest the first step is to throw that list away. I am not saying settle, but entertain the possibility that love may not come in the package you expect. A man with a true pure heart, able to love and adore you may not look or be anything like you expect. Open your mind to different types of men than you normally would date. I am a prissy pot. I am in a committed relationship with my opposite. Rough around the edges, blue collar hard working man. No suit and tie like I was accustomed too.
The same goes with negative questions. If you ask yourself questions like "Why can't I find love?" or "Why am I single?" your subconscious mind will again go and find the answers for you. These are not nice answers either! Things such as "You sabotage relationships.", "You're too fat!", "You can't commit." and so on... Your brain MUST come up with an answer for you.Not pleasant but that's how it works. You then keep going through the same patterns time after time, potential relationship after potential relationship.
Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.
All the crazy, unattractive, messed up, still living with their parents at 35, no job, mean spirited, buck toothed, long working hours, stuttering people and worse that have found love, have done so because they loved themselves and opened themselves up fully to the power of being loved.This one magical state attracts love like you could never believe! Love is attracted to love. At our most primal level, we know in our hearts that once you are tuned in to your own ability to feel positively toward others, you will find someone special. This creates an intimate connection with the rest of the human race that allows and sometimes beckons others to gravitate toward us.
Anyone can find someone to fulfill them, someone they can call their soulmate. Its great that you want to find someone. Believe it or not but some of us in the world like to be alone. There are people who see friends and family as being weak. They think everyone around them only wants to hurt them, and so they live alone and fun by themselves.Some people just hate companionship, which is alright. Its their life and they can live it the way they want to. If you're someone asking "will I ever find love?" then the first thing you need to do that is to have the ability to take chances.Take a chance to speak to people, just start talking to people. Love is built through communication and with that said, how will you ever fall in love with someone if you don't start meeting people. Every time you walk outside there are people who you can talk to.
There are thousands of stories from which a person found the love of their life in a grocery store, at the gas station and believe it or not, people have found love in jail. The point is to take advantage of every opportunity in life.By opportunity I mean take a chance to talk to someone who you don't know. I'm not saying that you're going to fall in love with a bum or someone on the bus, but just start striking up conversations with people. Share your personality and your intelligence with the people you meet.
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