Do You Think That These Are The Best Solutions For Your Problem?

When You Have Learned The Hard Way

By James Edward


Very popular now is the acronym, which is flexibly used as an expression, "YOLO" which means, "you only live once". It is analogous to "Be merry, for tomorrow you die." It creates a shout out that every person should do everything he likes. For the modern generation, it is engaging in all sorts of activity and by "all" means encompassing even harmful and immoral doings. Some are even all out and proud to tell their activities in social media sites; probably feeling "cool" or "strong" or "liberated" or "mature" that they are living life to the fullest. Are they? Really?

I have my reasonable share of filthy stories. Getting drunk almost every evening, finishing a pack of cigarettes just for an hour or two, sleeping with different guys three months after the other along with my list could just the grimace on your face might stay longer than usual so I am nice and stop revealing. Back then, when I was doing these things, I thought they offer me happiness and satisfaction. How can I feel otherwise if each and every time I get intoxicated with alcohol I find myself light-headed and laughter would seem unstoppable? If every time My partner and i puff in and away it gives me a restful, tingling sensation? If each and every time we move, clich as it might sound, I reach bliss?

But I have realized that happiness takes a different approach from joy and that satisfaction takes a different approach from contentment. Happiness is dependent with events, things and individuals, which at times are usually trifling. Joy is deep-rooted; even from the absence of events, things and individuals; it stays in the center and provides peace. Satisfaction is fleeting since it revolves with triumphs along with accomplishments only. Contentment dwells whether or not we are faced along with adversities, sadness and failure and it keeps us cheerful no matter what circumstance we are going through.

The things I did before provide me with momentary and unsubstantiated "good" feelings. Were the problems solved? Was I able to flash a genuine smile? Was the emptiness filled?

We have different notions and reasons for happiness. Even though it are vastly different and be subjective from individual to individual. But "not everything that is permitted is honourable" - within Latin, non omne quod licet honestum est To engage in an unhealthy lifestyle is sure to leave man corrupted along with broken. With what I've got experienced, I had to learn the lessons of life from the dirtiest, darkest and nearly all painful way. I could have avoided the miseries of life basically have pursued a life not devoted to the gratification of bodily sensations. You could too.

Somebody should be aware and also ready with the consequences connected with his / her steps, may it be beneficial or bad, right or inappropriate, ethical or wrong. We have been weak on our personal thereby, vunerable to lure and also inappropriate doings. Challenge self not to ever spend similar mistakes continuously. Most of us should not be callous and also persistent with combating learning on the consequences of our mistakes.




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