Life is a major wheel. It is a given fact that we often face certain situations which are vaguely familiar to our usual situation and outside our comfort zones.
Dealing with life's big changes is easy when you are young. There will be a lot of big psychological babble telling you that facing challenges and change is a great thing when you are young, it changes the way to see things and helps you adapt and see the real world that you have to face. In short, you need that big life change to help you overcome the next one.
However, things are different when you are 30 years old and above when you just lost your job, your fianc broke up your engagement or you experience a big life crisis where you question even your very existence. Do not fear because this is natural.
Having that in mind, people above the age of 30 facing life's big twists and turns ask the question: Is There a Chance to Start Again at the Age of 30 and above? Of course, the answer is yes and there are three simple things that you should know when you are faced with such a dilemma.
First, remember that you are not the only person in the world with the same problem. There are billions of people around the world and they are faced with almost the same dilemma as you are. There are thousands or millions of people who have the same problems as you but with worst circumstances. If others can deal with it, then suck it up and deal with it the best way that you can.
We are not saying that you should pretend that everything is okay when in fact everything is not okay. You should try and see the balance of things and see to it that you have a support system to tell you that it is okay to stumble and fall sometimes and what is not okay is not having the will to stand up again.
Second, understand that your problem may be easier to deal with if you have someone who knows what you want and will help you get there. Hire a life coach. Start off by doing affirmations. Start making yourself more interesting through aid from an individual who is outside of your circle but is willing to help you. Expand your mind and see the help that a life coach can give you.
Finally, remember that you are 30 years old or above 30 years of age. You will not reach that age without facing any trials and obstacles. It is time for you to man up and face the problem head on, or woman up so as not to be so particular. The past 30 years of your life is a test and now the true test of your courage and strength is being conducted. Are you just going to sit there and watch a couple of young people live their lives and make mistakes while you just stand there and hide from your problems? We believe not.
Dealing with life's big changes is easy when you are young. There will be a lot of big psychological babble telling you that facing challenges and change is a great thing when you are young, it changes the way to see things and helps you adapt and see the real world that you have to face. In short, you need that big life change to help you overcome the next one.
However, things are different when you are 30 years old and above when you just lost your job, your fianc broke up your engagement or you experience a big life crisis where you question even your very existence. Do not fear because this is natural.
Having that in mind, people above the age of 30 facing life's big twists and turns ask the question: Is There a Chance to Start Again at the Age of 30 and above? Of course, the answer is yes and there are three simple things that you should know when you are faced with such a dilemma.
First, remember that you are not the only person in the world with the same problem. There are billions of people around the world and they are faced with almost the same dilemma as you are. There are thousands or millions of people who have the same problems as you but with worst circumstances. If others can deal with it, then suck it up and deal with it the best way that you can.
We are not saying that you should pretend that everything is okay when in fact everything is not okay. You should try and see the balance of things and see to it that you have a support system to tell you that it is okay to stumble and fall sometimes and what is not okay is not having the will to stand up again.
Second, understand that your problem may be easier to deal with if you have someone who knows what you want and will help you get there. Hire a life coach. Start off by doing affirmations. Start making yourself more interesting through aid from an individual who is outside of your circle but is willing to help you. Expand your mind and see the help that a life coach can give you.
Finally, remember that you are 30 years old or above 30 years of age. You will not reach that age without facing any trials and obstacles. It is time for you to man up and face the problem head on, or woman up so as not to be so particular. The past 30 years of your life is a test and now the true test of your courage and strength is being conducted. Are you just going to sit there and watch a couple of young people live their lives and make mistakes while you just stand there and hide from your problems? We believe not.
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